| Location | Coventry |
| Age | 22 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 22/11/1980 |
| Date of Death | 04/07/2003 |
| Visitors | 1,221 since 06/09/2008 |
| Creator |
My brother was serving four years in prison at Wellingborough prison, he was found hanging in his
cell, Staff where told he wanted to take his own life by an inmate, but at his inquest this witness
could unfortunately not be found, his name is Mark Bray, i would really like to get in contact with
him, because the prison system got away with it, witch makes it harder to cope with, because my
brother could of been saved. He left behind his six month old baby boy Calum, and he only had one
year left of his sentence.
I love and miss you so much, till we meet again Tisha xxxxxx
happy birthday my big brother
From day one,
without knowing it,
I loved you with all my heart.
As I grew older I looked up to you and to no other..
You were my best friend and my hero.
At night I miss the sound of your music,
I miss waking up an seeing you with your hand on your face !
I miss your comfort and the way you made me feel safe.
I like to remember our times together good times and the bad.
I miss your smile,
and I miss the way our room smelt of your cologne.
But most of all I miss your reassuring hugs and rubbing your head before i went to bed.
I wish I could go back and tell you how I felt,
how much i love my big brother !
I will always love you no matter how long its been,
since the day your life began & came to an end.
I miss my big brother.
Happy birthday b , my big brother ravin in heaven ..
Till we meet again !
I love you .
xx
Happy birthday xx
B.j, Happy birthday, I try an imagine what you would look like as you got older, it breaks my heart, i love an miss you so much, I dont know how I cope, but I do, or do I, no one else is there when Im on my own in bits, till we meet again B, I love you, Tisha xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Happy birthday
B.j, your 29 today bab such a shame I can’t share it with you, But one day we will meet up and go raving like me and Tisha do, so till then, I love and miss you always, love you mum xxx
B.j, it’s your birthday today your 29 can not believe it your my special big brother, and I love you loads always your little sister Chinade (Chuckie) xxxx
Always in my heart, love you. Nan xx
Love and miss you. uncle Dave xxx
Love and miss you on your birthday, Mickey & Aaron xxxx
i love and miss you!!!!
The day is raw an we are still sore, But we'll unite together an become one, fo you B.j, our loved one. Stompin, chompin not no long thing. Gettin messy and ravin up for you cause you showed us all what to do. We'll be messy, messy, messy, but all in his memory. we will all be down with the hardcore feelin's, ravin around to the sounds, gettin down to to the hardcore like never before. We are true to you, why some peep's aint got a clue!, Lost, Loved but never forgotten, R.I.P B.j, i love you always kim xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
My Amazing Brother !
B.j .. I Was Just Thinkin Ov You . & Wanted To Tell You I Love & Miss You So Much ! The Pic Ov You Sitting Here By My Side ! The Biggest Smile On Your Face Is What Helps Me Servive , Im Going Raving The 10th With Tish , Wish you Could Be There .. !! I Kno You Will Be , But Its Still Not The Same ! Each Day Gets A Little Harder Knowing That Your Never Cummin Bak ! Knowing That Im Not Gonna Be Able To Rub Your Head Before I Go To Bed :'( I Love You & Miss You Dearly B.. xxxxxxx
My Big Brother B.J
6 Years 2 day you went away! heart broken & destroyed, its still a fresh wound to me. each year it just gets a little harder just to think & kno your never cummin bak! i kno it was a stupid mistake that went wrong but, that makes it hurt even more. B ill love you forever, Wish you could see tori you would love her, Shes defoo gonna kno about her uncle BJ, The brightest star in tha sky! R.I.P B ravin in heaven!! xx
Six years today you left us B.j, the pain still feels like it was only yesterday, they say times a healer, they are so wrong, untill we meet again bruv, i love and miss you so much. Always thinkin off you, Tisha xxxxxxx
Suicide - by christine ross
Who's to blame for suicide?
The question often heard.
Someone always points a finger
And they say such hurtful words.
They never do consider that
It's caused from a disease.
Depression and Bipolar
Are just a few of these.
Some die from being murdered.
Some die from accidents.
Some die from pneumonia,
But none of it makes sense.
Sometimes body parts wear out
Way before their time.
Some lose the cancer battle,
But it all seems so unkind.
No matter how they leave us
It never is their choice.
There's something deep within them
That has a bigger voice.
So please refuse to take the blame
For the THING that took your Smile.
Although others point their fingers.
They haven't walked your mile.
Letter From Heaven
To my dearest family, some things I would like to say. But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay. I'm writing this letter from heaven. Here I dwell with God above. Here, there's no more tears of sadness. Here is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight. Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and he said, " I welcome you, It's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, They'll be here later on. I need you here badly, your part of my plan. There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man." God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do. And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you. And when you lie in bed at night, the days chores put to flight. God and I are closest to you in the middle of the night. When you think of my life on earth, all those loving years. Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry, it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain. I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned, If I were to tell you, you would not understand. But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over. I am closer to you now, than I ever was before. There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb, But together we can do it by taking one step at a time. It was always my philosophy and I would like it for you too, That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain, Then you can say to God at night, " My day was not in vain." And now I am contented that my life was worthwhile. Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile. So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low, Just lend a hand to pick them up, as on your way you go. When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind, I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind. And when it's time for you to go from that body to be free. Remember you're not going... you're coming here to me. By Anon xx Sent With Love xx
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